I Don't Know Twilight and Why People are Stupid.

               Ok, so I debated a bit back and forth about whether I was going to write anything about this, and then someone involved with this did something I think to be so ridiculously stupid that I can no longer hold back. Just to preface or whatever. I also don’t apologize if I offend anyone because the one I’m likely to be meanest to put it on the internet and therefore I don’t feel bad in the slightest talking about it. If you put it up for the whole world to see then don’t be mad when they bloody well do.

               Love Triangles are just silly. Like regular ones that just occur because one girl (usually) attracts the attention of two boys who are somehow connected to each other like being friends, roommates, co-workers, or involved with an unending grudge match between mythical creatures if Twilight is to be believed. (That’s the initial connection between Jacob and Edward right? Doesn’t matter, anything to do with Twilight is irrelevant and silly.) Anyways, the point I was trying to get at, normal love triangles are silly, but tolerable. Entertaining mostly due to the fact that not all the parties involved really get what’s going on there. It’s fun to be on the outside and kind of laugh at the make bets between friends or whatever. It’s also ok because normally what happens is that one guy typically starts to just become the favourite. Normally you see one guy just simply pull ahead so to speak and the other guy backs down before it becomes too messy. This is normal. I think, don’t really know, just writing off the top of my head and that’s what seems reasonable.

               Now I’m saying this to emphasise how utterly ridiculous the love triangle I am currently observing is. I’ll start by saying what I think is “Standard” or normal about this (As far as love triangles go) First it is the ole’ two guys after one girl sort of thing. Lastly in my opinion it is already apparent who the better choice is, the whole favourite thing has already played out. That’s where the normal stuff ends.  

               What’s ridiculous about all this?

 One: Twilight references were immediately made therefore it is silly.

 Two: Obvious reasons for trust to be an issue make everything irrelevant. If basic trust cannot be established then it’s simply impossible to establish a healthy relationship. Also if trust is still there despite solid evidence that it shouldn’t then a person is in unreasonable denial and shouldn’t be considered reasonably able to make any sort of smart decision.  This can go either way and it does.

Three: Equal opportunity employment, sort of. When a girl realizes she has to make a decision between two guys this is what she should do. She first needs to ask herself if she has already made the decision in her mind and if she has then just go with that. If she hasn’t made a decision then she needs to give both guys reasonable opportunity to present their cases as to why they should be the one chosen. The most common reason for this to not happen is when one of the guys is the best friend. If you are the best friend and you know that something like this is happening be a good sport and let the other guy have his chance too. It seems stupid, but do you really want the girl if you have to deal with the constant thought that you only got her because you had an unequal opportunity? Maybe you would’ve got her anyway, but you’ll never know and that thought will stay with you as long as that girl is in your life.

               Ok before I go on I have to say this, I’m watching LOTR right now because the Hobbit is like 2.5 weeks away and I’m starting up the massive hype train for this event and if you look at Liv Tyler’s eyes at 1:08:00 and on in Fellowship of the Ring, you’ll notice that her eyes are like super dilated. Like the pupils are massive.

               Fourth: As I stated at the beginning, the reason I feel ok with writing this is because it was put up on the internet. As I always say, “If you’re going to do something stupid, don’t put it on the internet.” It still blows my freaking mind that this made it all the way to Facebook. Then again maybe not. Maybe people are caught up in all the drama and are actually enjoying all the attention it brings to them and are milking it. Maybe this is leading to the inevitable major emotional trauma for one guy. Maybe I think that’s just uncool. Maybe I think this whole situation is actually pants on head retarded. Maybe.

               To sum everything up, I am currently observing a love triangle that has grown incredibly old to me very quickly, because the reasoning and decision making of the people involved is equal to JYP’s Protoss versus Terran. For all of those who aren’t familiar with pro StarCraft that’s terrible. JYP used to have a 10% win rate in the match up. 10% as a paid pro. Unacceptable. The decision making with this love triangle is equally disappointing. I think the whole thing just needs to end. Frankly I don’t really think anyone should end up with anyone either, they’ve all acted like such idiots towards each other that none of them should want the other, but they do and in the end two people are going to be very happy and one person is going to be pissed off, and it’s prob gonna be the guy I’m rooting for. It’s all just plain silly. 

This is what I think about this now. Have fun destroying each other emotionally.

                    Last minute edit: I don't actually have any real negative feelings towards any of the people involved, I like them all as individuals, but recent decisions have been terrible in my opinion and this is my way of avoiding the situation of me blowing up in all of their faces about it and letting them sort this out for themselves the way it aught to be.

Source for pic: The Escapist